Archive for July, 2009

Family Friday: Letting Kids Spend Their Money?

American Girl dolls

At the risk of asking a ridiculous question, do you have any rules about how your kids are allowed to spend the money they’ve earned/saved?

Both of my girls, Elena (8) and Rosa (5), have one American Girl doll each (and several outfits/accessories). They play with these dolls quite a bit — we’ve definitely gotten our money’s worth.

But here’s the thing: Elena is at an age when she’s comparing what she has to what her friends have, and almost all of her close girlfriends have more than one American Girl doll each, so naturally Elena wants another doll.

I wish she didn’t want another doll because her friends have more than one (good luck with that, right?). Also, I am always struggling with how much stuff they have.

I suggested that she spend her own chore/birthday money if she really wants the doll. She doesn’t have enough, but she could earn the rest fairly easily – she’s a conscientious child. Really, I suggested this to gauge her response, rather than to encourage her to spend her money on the doll. Her response was (as I expected), “Aw, man!”

She is a saver, not a spender.

We had a conversation about what it means to have some “skin in the game” – that if she wants something badly enough, she should think about using her own money (and also, incidentally, might take better care of the things she bought with her own money). I think she agreed with the premise, anyway.

But I’m still mulling all of this over because the truth is that I want her to be happy/ok with having just one doll. So, should kids get to spend their money however they want? What if the item (like, for example, an American Girl doll…) is pricey? Do you have limits on how much they can spend, or what they can spend their money on?

Please weigh in – I would really love to hear your feedback (besides the obvious “Aren’t there more pressing global problems to be solved?”).

I have the *best* craft waiting for you on Monday. Until then, happy weekend to everyone!

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Design Thursday: Lara Brehm

Print & Pattern featured Lara Brehm back in June, and I subscribed to her blog right away. I love, love, LOVE her designs. Take a look:

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Fabulous, right? I keep hoping she’ll open an online shop. Hint HINT.

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Back to School Shopping: Backpack Roundup

Have you noticed what I’ve noticed? That it seems like everyone has jumped into the backpack business these days? From Garnet Hill and the Gap, to Hanna Andersson and Pottery Barn Kids (and the old standbys, Lands End and LL Bean), there is no shortage of cute, colorful and fun backpacks to choose from.

So today, I’ve rounded up my favorites for you. Most of these have matching lunch bags/boxes too (but I’m not including them here).

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Dante Beatrix backpacks (little kid on the left, big kid on the right) are, hands down, the cutest thing going. They’re expensive, but holy cow, they are CUTE.

Dante Beatrix Bunny BackpackDante Beatrix Panda Backpack

The squirrel backpack is fuzzy! Elena would go crazy for it.  Oompa Toys is a good place to buy the backpacks and lunchboxes; you can also get them directly from the Dante Beatrix website, where you’ll find some super cute t-shirts too.

Dante Beatrix Squirrel Fuzzy Backpack Dante Beatrix Monkey Backpack

These next two are Dabbawalla backpacks. I *love* the “Fast Track” backpack on the left. They have several other designs, including a great puppy backpack, and interesting lunch bags.

Dabbawall Fast Track BackpackDabbawalla Stoplight backpack

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Yummy Tuesday: Baby Shower Brunch Recipes

Baby Shower Lunch

I wanted to share two recipes from our baby shower brunch a couple of weeks ago: Daryl’s delicious chicken and goat cheese salad and Michelle’s yummy zucchini and tomato gratin (which I mistakenly called eggplant and tomato gratin).

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Crafty Monday: Inspired by Inspire Company

Every once in awhile, I’ll run across something that just stops me in my tracks. Last week, Craft: posted a picture of this sampler, by Amy Powers of Inspire Company, and it just takes my breath away.

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Look at Marie Antoinette!

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And this cottage! The grass feels like a Van Gogh painting to me.

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She writes on her blog that she made this as a gift. Pretty amazing gift, I’d say.

And here’s another sampler she did, in honor of her sweet little boy Alfredo. You should go to her blog and read what she wrote about creating it – it’s really lovely.

Sampler 1

The water under the sailboat is genius.

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Really beautiful, really inspiring how talented some people are.

I poked around her blog a little more, and came across more goodies. She has an Etsy shop, Sugarville; she also publishes a beautiful online magazine, Inspired Ideas. (You can click on the images):

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Inspired Ideas vol 1 no 8

So now you have 18 issues to look through and savor and a new blog to read – is that a great start to the week, or what? Happy Monday!

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Family Friday: Ha_ _ma_

When you go out to eat, do you flip over a paper placemat, or use a piece of paper from your purse, to play hangman with your kids? I know you need nothing more than paper and pencil for this easy way to pass the time, but this impulse buy – a wooden Hangman game by Melissa & Doug – has been a HUGE hit with my kids.

Melissa and Doug Hangman Game

It’s hard to tell from the photo, but each individual wooden tile letter and body part is held to the wooden board by a very strong nylon cord (the same way the pen on the right is held on). The pen – very usefully – has an eraser on the cap. Where you write the words at the bottom is white board material, so you just write on and wipe off.

You start with the letters face up, and the body face down. Each time you guess a letter, you flip it face down (whether it’s a correct or an incorrect guess), so that you know which letters have been used and which ones are left. Each time you guess incorrectly, you reveal a piece of the hangman’s body. (Of course – you know how to play the game).

This new toy was a lifesaver on an ill-fated car ride to Yankee Stadium earlier in the week. Note to self: Never drive to Yankee Stadium ever again.

As it’s a Melissa & Doug toy, you can count on the quality, and it’s very easy to find this online, including Target, Toys R Us and Amazon. And hopefully you can find it in your local toy store. I bought it at the nearby Lakeshore Learning Center.

I only have a couple more days until I get Rolando back from Cuba. I can’t wait to see his photos and hear all about his trip. And I said goodbye to my sister and nephew this morning. We had a great week together: the beach, the pool, the Yankees, the Bronx Zoo, ice cream, chocolate covered pretzels, shopping, a US soccer game and a whole lot of Super Mario Galaxy on the Wii. I’m so glad they came.

Happy weekend to everyone!

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Design Thursday: Cuban Poster Art

This is not going to be an academic discussion of Cuban poster art and its significance and contributions to art, cinema, and geopolitics. ‘mkay? I just want to share some posters that I really love, and I’ll try to give some background.

The bulk of Cuban posters are Cuban cinema posters produced by the Cuban Film Institute ICAIC (Instituto Cubano de Arte e Industria Cinematográfico), and political posters by OSPAAAL (Organization of Solidarity of the People of Asia, Africa & Latin America). We visited ICAIC’s museum in Havana, where they’d plastered all the walls and the ceiling with posters. I have a picture, but can’t share it, unfortunately, because the laptop I usually work on died the day Rolando left for Cuba, and I can’t access my pics at the moment.

“The laptop died the day Rolando left for Cuba” sounds like a country song.

Anyway, to name a few (certainly not all), some of the most famous of the Cuban graphic artists are Eduardo Muñoz Bachs, Alfredo Rostgaard, Antonio Reboiro, René Portocarrero, René Mederos, Raúl Martinez, and René Azcuy.

I’m going to start wth Bachs.

Cine Moviles by Bachs Manuela

Vampiros by Bachs Cienaga by Bachs

The prolific artist Eduardo Muñoz Bachs, who died in 2001, created many memorable posters – in all, he designed more than 2,000. Manuela (1965) is a really interesting movie about a woman who joins the guerrilla fighters in the Sierra Maestra mountains; it’s directed by the same person, Humberto Solas, as the famous movie Lucía (1968), which explores the lives of three women (all named Lucía) at various points in Cuban history.

Note the signature Cuban guayabera (shirt) and cigar in the poster for Vampiros en la Habana (1985), which is kind of a goofy animated film about a scientist who invents a potion allowing vampires to be able to live while the sun is out.

Cines Moviles is a documentary about taking film projectors and films into poor, rural Cuban communities and letting people see movies for the first time and watching their reactions. I have seen it, but don’t remember it well, except that the people were, perhaps not surprisingly, absolutely enchanted by the “moving pictures” they were seeing. I have not seen Sucedió la Ciénega (It Happened in the Swamp) – I’ve just always loved the poster for it.

Camilo by Raul Martinez Fidel by Raul Martinez

These next two are by Raúl Martinez (1969 and 1968 respectively), and I am really drawn to their color/style. The “swashbuckling” Camilo Cienfuegos was a popular revolutionary and close friend of Che Guevara; he died in a plane crash in 1959. Rolando’s grandmother believed – as did many Cubans – that Fidel and/or his brother Raúl had him murdered because he was so popular. Historians tend to believe there was no foul play involved.

You know who the Fidel is in the poster on the right. The “26″ refers to the failed July 26, 1953 attacks on the Moncada Barracks (army facility) in Cuba, which is considered the official beginning of the Cuban Revolution. Both Fidel and Raúl were captured and put in jail after the attack, but in 1955, President Batista, under broad political pressure, granted clemency to all political prisoners. The Castro brothers subsequently went to Mexico (where they met Che Guevara and Camilo Cienfuegos) to plan their revolution, and they returned to Cuba in the yacht, Granma, in December of 1956 to put their plans in motion.

Hasta La Victoria Siempre Rostgaard Christ Guerrilla by Rostgaard

Alfredo Rostgaard made many posters for both ICAIC and OSPAAAL. He was also the art director for OSPAAAL. He died in 2004. The Hasta La Victoria Siempre (1968) Che poster on the left translates as “Forever, until victory” and it was the sign off Che used in his last letter to Fidel before heading to Bolivia where he was eventually captured and killed. This Santiago Alvarez documentary from 1967 (see an interesting write up about the film here) about the circumstances that led to Che’s death was made in just 48 hours, upon the personal request of Fidel and right after news of Che’s death was announced.

The poster on the right, Christo Guerrillero, (1969) is an OSPAAAL poster, unusual for its religious iconography. The poster is a tribute to Camilo Torres, a famous Catholic priest in Colombia, who, believing passionately in justice for the poor and oppressed, left the priesthood to join the National Liberation Army (ELN) in Colombia; he died in battle very shortly after joining the guerrillas. He famously said,  “If Christ were alive today, he would be a guerrillero.”

Cancion Protesta soycuba

Cancion Protesta (1967), made for the Casa de las Americas for a music festival, is also by Rostgaard; it’s part of the permanent collection of the Museum of Modern Art in New York.

Soy Cuba (1964) was a joint film production between Cuba and the Soviet Union, and it’s a really interesting movie that consists of 4 shorts about the suffering of Cuban people under Batista. To be sure, it’s pure propaganda, but the cinematography is gorgeous. We saw it at a Cuban film festival in New York, but I am pretty sure you can rent it. The amazing poster is by René Portocarrero.

JulietadeLosEspiritusCecilia by Reboiro

And the very colorful and symmetrical work of Antonio Reboiro. These are both movie posters. Julieta de los Espiritus (1967) – a Fellini movie – and Cecilia (1984), another movie by Humberto Solas (Manuela and Lucía), this one about a clever woman, Cecilia, who uses Santería to seduce the son of a rich colonialist family.

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This is, by no means, an exhaustive look at Cuban poster art. I barely touched on the OSPAAAL posters, which feature very politically powerful (and often controversial) images and subjects.

Finding good (and large) images of Cuban posters is not easy, though OSPAAAL has a pretty good archive here (click on the Cuban Movie Posters link for the biggest selection of images). Some of my very favorites – the “social” posters, which are propaganda posters that encourage cooperative behavior, like conserving energy and water, and helping with the sugar cane harvest – are nearly impossible to find, except in Lincoln Cushing’s excellent book Revolucion! He does have thumbnails of lots of posters here and here, but you can’t click on them for larger images. These are some of the social posters, in thumbnail size. From left to right:

I Am Going to Study to Be a Teacher (1971)
Working for 10 Million (the Motorized Health Brigade) (1970)
Don’t Waste It (1983)
Cut Until the Last Cane (1971)
International Women’s Day (1972)
Pull Together With Efficiency and Quality (1975)

I am going to study to be a teacher Motorized Health Brigade Don't waste itCut Until the Last Cane International Women's Day Pull Together

I’m not an expert in the Cuban Revolution – I’ve read a bit here and there. If you’re interested in learning more, I think Jon Lee Anderson’s book Che: A Revolutionary Life is a must read. The book (and it’s a big one) is, of course, mostly about Che, but it provides an excellent accounting of the Revolution and how Che, an Argentinian, ended up as one of its leaders (as well as how he was too restless to remain in Cuba after overthrowing the Batista government). I also read a memoir by Carlos Eire called Waiting for Snow in Havana: Confessions of Cuban Boy because my father-in-law recommended it as a book that reflected his own experience as a boy in Cuba, who left shortly after the Revolution.

Whew. This was a long post, but a labor of love.

I hope you liked seeing the posters as much as I enjoyed posting them for you.

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Etsy Wednesday: Drooling Like a Big Slobbery Dog

I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but I’ve added quite a few blogs to my “Good Reads” section. And when I say, “Good Reads,” I mean it.  Sweet Tidings, one of my new favorites, is where I found these Nostalgia soaps. Don’t you *looooove* the packaging?

Nostalgia Soap

Also from Sweet Tidings, this Little t Jane carved wooden stamp makes me think about my anniversary which is coming up in a couple of weeks.

Carved Initials Stamp

Button Flower bookends – I love this creative idea from dedeetsy’s shop

Button Flower Bookends

Cindy Tomczyk’s “For the Birds” letterpress print, which matches the “Girl and Guitar” print I bought at the Renegade Craft Fair. I need the set, don’t you think?

For the Birds Print

And seriously, how great is this “Kortteli” pillowcase? (Also comes in blue and green, but you know me – I never get sick of the pink). “Kortteli” means “block” in Finnish. By ninuska.

Kortteli Pillowcase

My birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks. Just sayin’.

Tomorrow: Cuban poster art. I’ve been working on this post for a couple of days. It’s good stuff – don’t miss it.

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Yummy Tuesday: Cuban Picadillo

Picadillo

I’m not fluent in Spanish, but I am in Cuban food, and I am pretty sure that “Picadillo” translates to “Food of the Gods” (roughly, anyway).

Others call it “Cuban Beef Hash,” but others ought to stick to something that sounds more appetizing than “Cuban Beef Hash.”

It’s basically ground beef with some spices, green bell pepper, garlic, tomato, and pimento stuffed olives, served over rice (noticeably absent from the pic above, but the cute tablecloth makes up for it) and with black beans. It’s very easy to make and a satisfying, filling dish.

Here, try it:

Cuban Picadillo

(4 to 6 servings)

1/4 cup olive oil
1 medium yellow onion, diced
1 medium green bell pepper, seeded and chopped
2-3 cloves of garlic, minced
1 lb. ground beef
1/2 cup can crushed tomatoes
1 T. salt (to taste)
1/2 cup pimento-stuffed green olives (may be cut in half, drained)

1. Heat olive oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Once it’s hot, saute the onions, pepper, and garlic. Cook stirring for about 10 minutes or until soft. Add the beef and cook, stirring until brown (10-15 minutes). Use a wooden spoon to break up any large pieces. Drain any excess fat.

2. Add the tomatoes and salt and stir until combined. Cook uncovered over medium heat for another 15 or 20 minutes or so, then stir in the olives (which Rolando cuts up, rather than leaving whole). Serve over white rice and with black beans.

And while homemade tostones (fried plantains) are a lot more delicious than store-bought, Goya does sell frozen tostones and maduros (ripe plantains), which are pretty darn good. Plantains – ripe or sweet or both – are staple side dishes. Did I mention that Cubans aren’t really into vegetables? Yeah, not really part of their vocabulary.

I can’t take credit for the above photo, as the chief dinner-cooker is actually in Cuba and not home, cooking me this delicious dinner. The photo is courtesy of bitchincamero (who shares a similar recipe). If you’re interested in trying other Cuban food and you don’t have a Cuban grandmother or a nice Cuban husband to make it for you, Memories of a Cuban Kitchen is a good cookbook.

I mentioned I would share a few more photos from our 2000 trip to Cuba, so here are three:

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This is the house where my father-in-law lived (in the leafy Vedado neighborhood of Havana) until he was 12, when his family decided to leave Cuba. They left in 1961 and spent a brief few months in Miami before eventually settling in Duxbury, Massachusetts.

Rolando’s great uncle (his grandmother’s brother) stayed in Cuba to work for the government, and still lives there. We visited him in 2000, and we were the first of his extended family he’d seen in 40 years.

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(A lot of our photos from that trip are black and white). This is the Casa de Cultura in central Havana, where we took dance and music lessons for two weeks. What I loved about Havana, and this building is no exception, are the ornate details all around, like beautifully painted tile sidewalks and intricate marble architectural details hiding under layers of grime, or neglected for lack of resources for the last 60 years.

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This is the former presidential palace, which is now the Museo de la Revolución. In the back, encased in a big glass building, is the Granma, the yacht that Fidel and fellow fighters used to sail from Mexico to Cuba to launch their revolution. Inside, you can see machine gun bullet pockmarks in the marble walls from a failed attempt on former president Fulgencia Batista’s life, along with lots of artifacts (guns, photos, bloody uniforms) from the revolution.

I’ve made Rolando promise that he would take a ton of photos on this trip. I wonder if much has changed in the 9 years since we first visited.

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Crafty Monday: Cute Pencil Box Favors

This idea comes from Hip Hostess who bills it as a Bridal Luncheon lunchbox for your bridesmaids, but I bookmarked it awhile back thinking it could be a possible baby shower favor idea. The cool thing is that it can be easily adapted for just about any kind of party – or just as a fun, creative gift – as you can see.

These are the materials you need:

Cardboard Pencil Boxes – Michael’s carries these (at least in NJ they do!)
Scrapbook Paper
Scotch Tape
Craft Glue
Double-sided Tape

Take a look at Hip Hostess’ version in these next two photos: a personalized tag on the lid, a pretty, matching lining for the inside, and a treat to eat in each little compartment.

School Box gift idea

School Box gift idea 2

Obviously, what you put in the box doesn’t have to be edible, and you could personalize the outside of the box any way you like. There are lots of free printable labels out there like these lemon fresh labels from Creature Comforts, and these cute scalloped labels from Tart Workshop.

What if, for a kid’s birthday party, you filled each compartment with little trinkets, like balloons and wind up toys and stickers? The kids could decorate their own boxes with stickers and markers. Or what if each compartment had a different colorful candy?  You could fill boxes with homemade cookies and/or candy for Christmas treats. (Oh my god, I didn’t just say “Christmas,” did I? )

The possibilities are endless.

I bought enough of these boxes last year for Elena’s 1st grade classmates to decorate themselves with stickers and Sharpies, which was a brilliant way of using up many of the stickers I had lying around. The boxes are very sturdy and don’t cost more than a buck or two each. Michael’s carries a couple of different sizes.

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Yesterday we sent Rolando on his way to Cuba for a week. Tomorrow, I’m sharing his/his grandmother’s recipe for Picadillo, one of my favorite Cuban dishes. Please note: healthy eaters might be horrified by this recipe.

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